I have been involved in the “Facebook is Big Brother” privacy discussion about 5 times this week, and I’m frankly, bored with it. I understand the risks of saying this aloud on a blog – but I’m going to do it anyway: Lay off Facebook! Yeah, I said it.
There’s privacy risk involved in uploading anything to the web, akin to driving a car on a freeway. You see, it’s not up to Facebook to determine what’s on your profile so quit blaming them for that shot of you at your bachelorette party dancing on the bar. You uploaded it to the web, sister. Period.
Frankly, I think the integration of the “like” button on other sites is VERY cool. We’re in an era where peer reviews sell products moreso than ads. I think it’s helpful for us all to see who likes products, especially your friends. I’ll tap them for a review, increasingly holding product sellers accountable for having a good product. And regarding privacy – again – your user settings allow it.
Look, could Facebook turn off a few buttons on default? Sure they could – they may have to, if the government gets more involved. But, as I pointed out a few times this week via twitter, there’s no OPT in default Opt-Ins – by definition. They do encourage you to edit your privacy settings, which is pretty fantastic, considering what it meanst to their bottom line.
We live in a society that likes to “set it and forget it” when it comes to preferences online. Not anymore. Set ‘em! Change ‘em! Control your own data.
At the end of the day, Facebook is a company. Companies like to make money. No amount of people are going to change that. So, save the “Yeah, but they’re making money off our information!” argument. It doesn’t hold water. Do you think your TV watching habits, magazine subscriptions, web clicks, and credit scores aren’t being bought and sold? You bet they are! My wife and I had free diapers in the mailbox the day we arrived home from the hospital after my son was born. In years past, I’ve bought lists from the post office for direct mail pieces, targeting men who subscribe to certain magaines who own pools in a certain zip code. Companies buy and sell your data every day without your knowledge of it.
The two types of information carriers in existence are 1) pay for access (SIRIUS/XM Radio, Cable & Satellite TV) and 2) free and full of ads (terrestrial radio, Super Saver Newspapers by the door at the grocery store). This isn’t new. You can’t have a free information carrier without Ads – even MySpace has that figured out. Where MySpace screws up is sporting a nauseating user experience, which has helped Facebook flourish into the #1 visited site and more importantly – the 7-minutes-plus on average that people spend each visit. Facebook users are very lucky their Ads are not intrusive and even let you close an ad and ask why you closed it.
You’ve seen the groups “1,000,000 strong to say NO to paying for Facebook” and the like. It won’t happen as long as Facebook continues to evolve as an information carrier. Because they’ll sell ads. And – let me tell you – these are the most effective, super targeted advertising system in history. Because of the information YOU gave them.